Let me be your Succor

nvendng storysuccor
[ ˈsəkər ]
NOUN
assistance and support in times of hardship and distress.
I found this word the other day and had no idea what it meant. I was taken with it, as I don’t see all that many completely unknown-to-me words. So I race to the dictionary (merriam webster of course) and find a wonderful and unexpectedly lovely definition.
While I admit I take on a lot of things, too many things in fact, I do enjoy being someone’s support, and using the inner strength I have many reserves of, to prop someone else up and help in any way that I can.
Nothing else, just that.

A New Year

from-north-mountain-phxFrom a hike up North Mountain, December 2014

“May your trails be crooked, winding, lonesome, dangerous, leading to the most amazing view. May your mountain rise into and above the clouds.” -Edward Abbey

I have been racking my brain to write something out of all the retrospectives I have read at the end of the year, to start a new one. To write something that will sort of rally the troops as we all delve into this year together.

I came up short of anything thought-provoking, but thinking about it did make me write about some other stuff.

Most years start off easy, take everything at a relaxing pace, and most years end the same way. I have decided that for this year, I’m going to go hard into the paint, so to speak.

(Also, “hard into the paint” is my favorite, and only correctly used, sports metaphor, so please let me have it and don’t judge me for using it too often.)

Sure, I might burn myself out. But I haven’t felt that great burned out from being creative burn in a while. Having that feeling under my belt might open me up to even more adventures.

I love the idea of thinking about projects and experiments, rather than resolutions. I can resolve to send out inspirational postcards to pen pals once a month, if I think of it more as a happiness project. I can also experiment with a new habit if I think of it in terms of just one month, like Art of Manliness’ 31-Day Journal prompts. I also might possibly need a little help in re-learning how to pay attention.

A little late, but some things to think about for the coming year in these New Year’s Asks.